Registration is not required.
Join us for an open and inclusive discussion circle for polyamorous folks of all experience levels — whether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or have been walking this path for years. This is a space to share stories, celebrate triumphs, reflect on mistakes, and learn from each other in a supportive, judgment-free environment. We believe that everyone has something valuable to offer — from navigating jealousy to building chosen families, from communication wins to hard-earned growth. Come as you are, listen, speak, connect, and be heard. Let’s build community through honesty, compassion, and shared experience.
This discussion group is a space for all of that: sharing stories, asking questions, celebrating our wins, and learning from the missteps. Whether you’re brand new or have years of experience, we all have something valuable to offer — and we can’t wait to learn from you.
Facilitator Bio:
Ibuildthings (He/him) has over 15 years of experience in polyamory and a decade of involvement in the San Diego polyamorous community. He has had the privilege of witnessing — and living through — the many beautiful (and sometimes messy) layers of ethical non-monogamy. He has served on the board of directors for local clubs and volunteered for community events and organizations for over 10 years, always with the goal of creating spaces where people can connect, grow, and feel seen.
Accessibility
- Accessibility: Event space is ADA compliant.
- Restrooms: ADA compliant, gendered restrooms with multiple stalls. Shared with restaurant next door. Door to restrooms requires a big pull. Door will lock from the hallway side if it falls shut, and you'll have to go out and around or get someone to open the door from the Joyce Beers side.
- Lighting: Fluorescent.
- Smoking: Permitted outside.
- Parking: Limited 2-hour parking in the ground-level lot; underground parking available for visits longer than 2 hours, subject to attendance (get to ground level via stairs, Ralph’s escalator ramp, or elevator near Ralph's side door).
- Transit access: Served directly by bus routes 1, 10, and 11 on University and Vermont; bus route 120 at 10th and University; buses 7 and 215 about 1/2 mile away at Park and University.
Health & COVID Policy
Club X supports safety and responsibility to one's self as well as to others in the kink community in all things, including issues related to health and infectious diseases. For personal protection and for the well-being of those around them, Club X encourages its members and guests to be vaccinated according to CDC guidelines against communicable diseases. Club X supports anyone’s choice to wear masks.
If you are ill with any infection that can be spread through casual contact, please do not attend Club X in-person events. Regardless of symptom severity, if you know or suspect you are Covid positive or are otherwise ill, isolate in accordance with CDC guidelines. As a courtesy to others, and as a matter of personal responsibility, if you have been knowingly exposed to Covid-19, we request that you wear a high-quality mask, as recommended by the current CDC guidelines.
Club X reserves the right to require masking at an event if requested by the presenter. We will designate such events with “masks required” in the title.